Her description could not be more perfect! Kate and her closest cousin, Maryn (born exactly 10 weeks apart mid-winter 6 years ago) are best friends. Although on the outside, they seem like opposites (one has long hair, one short; one has blue eyes, one brown; one sings low, the other high), in their heart of hearts, they are the same.
Kind of like their moms.
We, too, are different in many ways, but have always shared a part of our hearts, as sisters. When we watch our girls together, it is like our childhood is being re-lived and witnessed from the outside. Only, as if we were twins. We've often wished we were (except during that one rough year in Jr. High, when we were glad that we weren't!)
Sadly, these two (four) hearts live 600 miles apart.
This past weekend, however, hearts reunited in a weekend spent together. My sis and I joined our third sister (equally heart-linked, but a few years younger) and parents, too, for some together time at the cabin. My Kate's heart was full with the company of her cousin. They played and laughed and hugged and giggled. And, they stayed up late into the night singing and laughing and loving their hearts' connection.
They made up a song: silly and nonsensical, and EXACTLY the thing Kami and I did together when we were young. They sang it over and over again. We smiled at their creativity and laughed at their antics. We reminisced about our own created songs and plays and performances from so long ago.
And, Kami pulled out the guitar and taught the girls a {real} song about hearts that are linked:
Underneath the same sky
Even though you're not close by
It feels just like
We're right beside each other.
Even though we're far apart,
Your friendship fills my heart.
It's so good to know, we're under the same sky.
Tonight, as my kids bedtime-snacked together, Kate started singing the made-up song. Dallin smiled and said, "Hey, did you make that up?" Amazingly, he hadn't heard her singing it, even though she and Maryn must have performed it 100 times over two days. It's because he was busy being with his heart-linked cousin, too, doing whatever it is boys do when they are together under the same roof. And, the same sky.
xoxoxo to our cousins, far away!

8 comments:
So sweet! And so true! I think it is adorable to see our kids become best friends with their cousins. And it just strengthens the sister relationship so much more to see the love between your kids. I convinced Sarah to let me have her kids for a week when she is on her first vacation in 3 years. Yep me, 5 kids, one week. I'll be writing a post about for sure!
I adore everything about this post and feel the same way about my sisters and their children with mine. Sigh for living so far away from them.
This one made me cry, Adri. I love those girls and their beautiful mommies!
That is just the absolute best. And exactly the reason I am sad none of Adam's sibs have kids that are my kid's ages. Wonderful vacation!
Sounds like it was a fun weekend. Sorry we missed it, but Skye had fun playing with her cousins on the other side of the family. Hope to see you guys next time you make a trip to Utah.
Ade, I loved this so much, I linked to it in my blog because you perfectly articulated how I feel about my sister's and our children's relationships :)
Thanks for putting into words my thoughts EXACTLY on the wonderful cabin weekend. I can't even think about that sweet song without the tears welling up. I'm thrilled that these four oldest Crowsfeet Grands are still so close to each other. Thank you for making the effort to come to Utah, bringing other little cuzzies to make new memories! Even though I know we are all underneath the same sky, I'm SOoooo happy when we get to share the same roof once in a while! xoxoxoxo Mom
Way too cute! Kate is adorable.
I am hoping Mary can find some friends here that she can play with like that. So far, lots of the girls here her age are too drama oriented. Boo! Come see us next time you come to Utah!
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